the ethics level

“An argument at the ethics level is not perceived as an attack on identity. An attack on the belief level is very much an attack on identity. … If you can explain yourself from a deeper level you are more likely to get the other person to comprehend your point of view. … at the belief level it is much more difficult to make change. … “ - Rory Miller, Facing Violence

Comments: Beliefs are and have been the bane of humans in regard to conflict and violence. Identity, status, etc., within the group for survival still has its tendrils wrapped around all we think, say and do. It is the nuclear reactor that runs the monkey brain and therefore the emotional gear box that runs us down the monkey path. Using communications to achieve balance and success in handling conflict and violence thus is all about how well we tackle the complexities of the monkey’s emotional maturity. It’s complicated.